The DoveLewis Pet Loss Blog

Enid Traisman

Enid Traisman, certified grief counselor & Director of the DoveLewis Pet Loss Support Program, shares her insight to help others navigate the grief of losing a beloved pet. Grieving for a loved pet is a natural, normal and personal process. Because they touched our lives so deeply they are deserving of our grief. Learn tips and tools for healing.


2014 8th Annual Service of Remembrance

I hope you can join me on December4th for our 8th annual Service of Remembrance and candle lighting ceremony, hosted by the DoveLewis Pet Loss Support Program in partnership with Dignified Pet Services.

Please join us in celebration of the invisible yet undeniable bond between humans and our beloved companion animals who are no longer here. Together, surrounded by others who understand this bond, we will light candles in memory of those who are no longer here.

Event Details:

The Old Church - 1422 SW 11th Ave., Portland                                          ... Read More >

10/27/14 | 5 Comments | Post a Comment | Viewed 909 times.


Please, Share Your Story

Did you know that sharing your story with others may help with your grieving and healing process?  It’s true, I have had the honor of witnessing this phenomenon first hand over the years as the founder of DoveLewis Pet Loss Support Program. Storytelling is considered one of the oldest healing arts; it has been used for centuries as a beneficial way for grieving people to cope with loss. 

Experiencing the loss of a very close companion animal can disrupt your world and cause you to re-evaluate your priorities and think about mortality.  When a significant life event like this... Read More >

10/30/14 | 21 Comments | Post a Comment | Viewed 2628 times.


Who attends group? Should I come?

The people who attend group are the folks who have been lucky enough to experience a very special bond with their companion animal.  They are grief stricken over the loss or anticipated loss of their beloved pet.
The people who attend group are male and female, young, old and every age in between, of every race and sexual orientation. 
The people who attend group have had their pets for 20 years, or less than a year.  Their pet has been diagnosed with cancer or has been euthanized to end the suffering of terminal old age. Their pet may have been hit by a car or attacked by a coyote. ... Read More >

05/16/14 | 1 Comment | Post a Comment | Viewed 3865 times.


Dealing with Guilt

Guilt is a cognitive or an emotional experience that occurs when a person believes—accurately or not—that he or she has violated a moral standard, and bears significant responsibility for that violation.

Guilt comes up very often in my pet loss support groups. Guilt can invoke in us the deepest, most terrible feelings of loss, horror, anger, and helplessness. The questions come up; Why did I do what I did?  Why couldn’t I have done more? Did I kill my beloved pet? Did I not do enough? Did I do too much? Did I put him/her down too soon? Did I wait too long? If only I had closed the... Read More >

04/11/14 | 5 Comments | Post a Comment | Viewed 10323 times.


I Love my House Call, Mobile Veterinarian


I feel so lucky that I have an amazing veterinarian who comes to my house! Dr. Louise Mesher, DVM, owner of At Home Veterinary Services provides excellent day-to-day veterinary care for my diverse pack of five. Of course, for any emergency or critical care medical needs, my brood would be taken to DoveLewis. For their non-emergent medical needs—more of the preventive medicine and wellness care—Dr. Mesher is an incredible and compassionate resource.

There are so many benefits to having Dr. Mesher and her technician come to my house for all of my animal companions medical care;

03/17/14 | 0 Comments | Post a Comment | Viewed 1262 times.